In an era where modernity often clashes with tradition, Stray Kids' Bang Chan brought a simmering issue to the fore.
The K-pop star recently criticized the prevailing manners and greeting etiquette among the new generation of idols, drawing both praise and attention.
Bang Chan's Concern Over Declining Etiquette
During one of his regular "Chan's Room" live streams on May 14, Bang Chan deviated from his usual jovial discussions and raised concerns about what he perceives as a decline in basic manners among new generation idols.
The Stray Kids' frontman, known for his candid, thoughtful exchanges, expressed worry over the apparent indifference displayed by some of his juniors towards the traditional practice of greeting.
Bang Chan, notably humble and polite, shared his experiences of being ignored or not reciprocated when offering greetings, a practice he considers basic respect.
He lamented, "It seems the act of acknowledging someone with a greeting is no longer viewed as a fundamental courtesy."
The "Boomer" Mentality and the New Generation
While voicing his concern, Bang Chan revealed his struggle with coming across as a "boomer," a term used to describe people out of touch with contemporary culture.
He voiced his inner conflict, saying, "I'm not denouncing anyone, but I can't help feeling a bit puzzled when my greetings are met with indifference."
The K-pop artist further noted a relaxed attitude among the new generation towards the custom of greeting, causing him to second-guess if he was overthinking the situation or if indeed there was a problem.
Despite his worries, Bang Chan reaffirmed his commitment to maintain his manners, insisting on greeting everyone he meets out of respect and goodwill.
The Fans' Take on the Issue
Bang Chan's revelation sparked an online debate, with fans rallying in support of his views. Many echoed his sentiments, emphasizing the importance of basic manners, even in a rapidly changing cultural landscape.
One fan commented, "He is not a boomer. He's valid. It's respectful to return a greeting."
Another fan expressed disappointment that Bang Chan felt he might be overthinking, stating, "It's disheartening that he believes he's overanalyzing when they're merely being discourteous. If someone greets you, you should reciprocate and not ignore them."
Though Bang Chan didn't name the idols who had ignored his greetings, his comments have stirred up a conversation about respect and the evolving standards of etiquette in the K-pop industry.
While he continues to uphold his values, the debate he ignited suggests a need for introspection within the industry.
After all, as another fan noted, "If a senior idol mentions basic manners twice on different occasions, it surely signifies something."
