Was Porsha Stewart An Absent Stepmom? [VIDEO INTERVIEW] Kordell Claims 'Out All Night Partying' And Neglecting Family Was Reason For Divorce

Was Porsha Stewart An Absent Stepmom? The Southern bell walks viewers through her painful divorce on The Real Housewives of Atlanta premiere on Monday tearing up for the cameras blaming Kordell for their nasty split. But Kordell Stewart claims Porsha completely neglected family partying all night with the other Atlanta Housewives trying to 'keep up with the Nene Leakes.' Is Porsha or Kordell to blame for their aweful and sudden split?

Her situation seemes heartbreaking and honest on The RHOA but new information about Porsha has made viewers rethink Porsha and her hard partying nights. Maybe Kordell isn't the villain that Porsha claims him to be as he tells a radio show that Porsha was an absent step mom that couldn't even kiss her 10-year-old son goodnight coming home in the wee hours. 

Last season on RHOA, Kordell was absent from the reunion as Porsha stood up for her husband. But it was obvious to the other Housewives and viewers that trouble was brewing between the Southern Bell and her NFL husband. 

In the RHOA premiere Porsha fills viewers in on her tumultuous split from Kordell but we still haven't heard Kordell's side...until now. Porsha says the NFL quarterback had broken up with Porsha via Twitter and she was a devoted and loyal wife, but was she? On a radio interview Kordell Stewart tells a very different version of the reasons behind their split.

Porsha Stewart tells her divorce lawyer that she wants to make a list of steps that Kordell would have to take to mend the relationship. Porsha obviously still has hope for the marriage but by the end of the episode Porsha was losing hope as he swatted away her list of requests at their deposition.

"Seeing Kordell at the deposition today was like an out-of-body experience," Porsha said during a RHOA confessional. "For me to be on one side of the table, and to have my husband on the other side, and we're trying to work out how to separate, was just heartbreaking."

"I was like, 'I'm going to find out everything I need to know, and I'm going to know exactly why he filed on me,'" Porsha told her family. "But after that entire deposition, he had no factual reason - no exact reason - to divorce me," leaving Porsha with no resolution her her failed marriage that she once treasured.

But on a radio interview, Kordell claims Porsha was an absent step-mom and was out partying all night, trying to be like "all of the Nene Leakes."

Kordell said, "So when you come out your mouth and show that type of disrespect, you have no idea how much that burnt me up inside. To know that I've been about team concepts all my life... I'm all about everybody pulling their weight, everybody doing their part. The person that suffers if people don't pull their weight is the child."

He continued, "And so, when my wife tells me she does what she wanna do because she's out doing what she's doing for whatever reason she's choosing to do it, when I allowed Bravo in the house. I went against the grain of what I represent. I'm private. I had to compromise everything about my manhood from the standpoint of ,'Ok, I'm going to let my wife do what she do....and that's it.'"

Porsha once defended Kordell when asked if Kordell was gay saying "He's more man to me than I have ever met. So for me gay is just out of the window." But since her divorce Porsha is saying something quite different about Kordell and his sexuality on The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Months after her tearful divorce from Kordell Stewart, where Porsha was informed of their split from Kordell via Twtter and not from his own mouth, Porsha breaks her silence on Kordell's sexuality and hints that her ex is possibly gay. 

Porsha says that "Kordell didn't necessarily want me physically and that made me wonder, what does he want?" We are wondering too! Porsha Stewart is pretty cute so what does Kordell want? Is the NFL football player changing teams or did he really hate the whole new hard partying Porsha that neglected her family?

Whose side are you on? I'm confused so PLEASE leave your comments.