Evelyn Lazado Cries On Basketball Wives Season 5 Promos[VIDEO REPORT] 'Feels F***** Up!' Loses Chad Ochocinco And Brother IN Law At Same Time

Basketball Wives star Evelyn Lozada and NFL player Chad Ochocinco have had a messy public divorce following a domestic violence incident last year in which Johnson allegedly head-butted Lozada. 

The season 5 promos of Basketball Wives is out and show Evelyn Lozada crying over her divorce drama with husband Chad and losing her brother-in-law Anthony Ochoa to cancer in the same week. Ochao had been married to Evelyn's sister Sylvia.

"We both lost both of our husbands and it sucks," Lozada says in the clip.

"It's just like the timing is crazy," she says. "It's like two of my best friends just gone. Which feels f***** up. You know?"

"Why is this happening to my life?" she says. "That's my brother and then he dies right after the incident with me and Chad ... Words can't even explain how dark I felt - like, this can't be my life."

"It's going to hurt for a while, but you're going to bounce back - you know, you always do," Ferrer tells Lozada in the video.

Chad "Ochocinco" Johnson was arrested for violating his probation back in May, which was for a domestic abuse charge that involved head-butting his then wife, Evelyn Lozada.

Ochocinco violated his probation on two separate occasions. He failed to how up to his probation appointments. The 35-year-old former Miaimi Dolphins star, also did not show proof to a judge that he enrolled in a court-mandated domestic violence education class. The violations forced the judge to issue a warrant for Johnson's arrest.

Chad was taken to a Florida courtroom this morning where a judge determined that he did, in fact, violate his probation. Bail was set for $1,000.

The probabtion stems from a violent attack on his then wife, "Basketball Wives" star Evelyn Lozada. The reality star found a condom receipt in Ochocinco's car and accused Chad of cheating.  The argument escalated and Johnson allegedly head-butted Evelyn.

While Loazada's face was covered in blood and she was whisked away to the hospital, Ochocinco was arrested and locked up on the domestic abuse charge.

"She alleges he leaned over and head-butted her. He says she leaned towards him and that they butted heads," police captain Dale Engle shared stories by both sides, before adding, "Needless to say she has a good laceration on her forehead."

But the "Dancing With The Stars" contestant's problems didn't end there. His career and love-life were gone in a moment.

The young man, who once had a stellar NFL career, was fired from the Miami Dolphins, had primo endorsement deals cancelled, lost a lucrative reality show deal, became embroiled in child care support issues, and has suffered through immense money problems because of the attack. And worst of all, his wife filed for divorce. The couple were married for 41 days.

"I don't give a [expletive]! I don't give a [expletive] about my career!" Johnson allegedly shouted after attacking her.

Evelyn was set to star with Johnson in a "Basketball Wives" reality show spinoff on VH1, titled "Ev and Ocho." The couple had only been married a little over a month. The VH1 deal could have been quite lucrative, even for the NFL player who was once making 7 figures.

The show's description ironically reads, "We've seen plenty of hearts broken over four hit seasons of Basketball Wives, but with a little luck, true love may finally win out in the new series Ev & Ocho." Hmm, not quite.