He might play the mysterious Caleb in "Divergent" but in real life, Ansel Elgort isn't afraid to share intimate things about his life. The actor and girlfriend Violetta Komyshan recently got back together after breaking up last year.

While he did not mention any name, Ansel Elgort talked to Elle Magazine about the time that he first got intimate with a girl.

"I was 14. I had no clue what I was doing, and neither did the girl."

When asked if he did regret it, the 21-year-old said that he would probably do things differently.

"I didn't even make the lighting good. That'd be one thing I'd do differently. It was, like, fluorescent, bright bedroom light, like, over the covers," Ansel Elgort said.

Even if the "Insurgent" actor has many female fans, he claims that he isn't the type of man who finds it necessary to sleep with several women.

He explained his monogamist view to the publication.

"If you like someone and the sex is really good and you enjoy spending time together, why wouldn't you make that person your girlfriend? Why go around dating random girls and having terrible sex when you can be with someone you really like?"

For those wondering what Ansel Elgort is looking for in a girlfriend, he said, "I like strong women. Physical women. My dad photographed a lot of beautiful dancers."

"My mom was a dancer. I love when a girl is like, 'I can't hang out. I have to go to class.' And I go pick her up and she's all sweaty in a leotard with her hair in a bun," he claimed. "That's the hottest thing ever."

Ansel Elgort's girlfriend Violetta Komyshan is a ballerina. They have been together since high school although they temporarily parted ways last year because of the actor's busy schedule.

The break didn't last long as the "Insurgent" cast admitted that he missed the brunette beauty.