Porsha Stewart VS Kordell Stewart: The Southern bell walks viewers through her painful divorce onThe Real Housewives of New Jersey premiere on Monday tearing up for the cameras blaming Kordell for their nasty split. Her situation is heartbreaking and Porsha will do whatever it takes to make their marriage work. But is their divorce that simple with Kordell being the villain? Maybe Porsha is to blame instead of Kordell taking all the heat. He thinks she's been an absent mom and puts Housewives in front of family.

Last season on RHOA, Kordell was absent from the reunion as Porsha stood up for her husband. But it was obvious to the other Housewives and viewers that trouble was brewing between the Southern Bell and her NFL husband. 

In the RHOA premiere Porsha fills viewers in on her tumultuous split from Kordell but we still haven't heard Kordell's side. Porsha says the NFL quarterback had broken up with Porsha via Twitter and she was a devoted and loyal wife but was she? On a radio interview Kordell Stewart tells a very different version of the reasons behind their split.

Porsha Stewart tells her divorce lawyer that she wants to make a list of steps that Kordell would have to take to mend the relationship. Porsha obviously still has hope for the marriage but by the end of the episode Porsha was losing hope as he swatted away her list of requests at their deposition.

"Seeing Kordell at the deposition today was like an out-of-body experience," Porsha said during a RHOA confessional. "For me to be on one side of the table, and to have my husband on the other side, and we're trying to work out how to separate, was just heartbreaking."

"I was like, 'I'm going to find out everything I need to know, and I'm going to know exactly why he filed on me,'" Porsha told her family. "But after that entire deposition, he had no factual reason - no exact reason - to divorce me," leaving Porsha with no resolution her her failed marriage that she once treasured.

But on a radio interview, Kordell claims Porsha was an absent step-mom and was out partying all night, trying to be like "all of the Nene Leakes."

Kordell said, "So when you come out your mouth and show that type of disrespect, you have no idea how much that burnt me up inside. To know that I've been about team concepts all my life... I'm all about everybody pulling their weight, everybody doing their part. The person that suffers if people don't pull their weight is the child."

He continued, "And so, when my wife tells me she does what she wanna do because she's out doing what she's doing for whatever reason she's choosing to do it, when I allowed Bravo in the house. I went against the grain of what I represent. I'm private. I had to compromise everything about my manhood from the standpoint of ,'Ok, I'm going to let my wife do what she do....and that's it.'"

Porsha once defended Kordell when asked if Kordell was gay saying "He's more man to me than I have ever met. So for me gay is just out of the window." But since her divorce Porsha is saying something quite different about Kordell and his sexuality on The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Months after her tearful divorce from Kordell Stewart, where Porsha was informed of their split from Kordell via Twtter and not from his own mouth, Porsha breaks her silence on Kordell's sexuality and hints that her ex is possibly gay. 

Porsha says that "Kordell didn't necessarily want me physically and that made me wonder, what does he want?" We are wondering too! Porsha Stewart is pretty cute so what does Kordell want? Is the NFL football player changing teams or did he really hate the whole new hard partying Porsha that neglected her family?

Whose side are you on? I'm confused so PLESE leave your comments.