Porsha Stewart Kordell Stewart Divorce update: Porsha walks viewers through her painful divorce on The Real Housewives of Atlanta premiere on Monday. Her situation is heartbreaking and Porsha claims she will do whatever it takes to save their marriage. Porsha believes in vows and doesn't take 'till death do us part' lightly which is something we all can admire. But Kordell Stewart just isn't taking the bait.

But is the divorce between Porsha and Kordell  that simple? Maybe Porsha is to blame instead of Kordell taking the heat. He surely thinks so and we can't dismiss what Kordell Stewart has to say. 

On a radio interview, Kordell Stewart claims Porsha was an absent step-mom and was out partying all night, trying to be like "all of the Nene Leakes."She was never around to say good-night to his 10 year old stepson whom Porsha cherished.

He continued, "And so, when my wife tells me she does what she wanna do because she's out doing what she's doing for whatever reason she's choosing to do it, when I allowed Bravo in the house. I went against the grain of what I represent. I'm private. I had to compromise everything about my manhood from the standpoint of ,'Ok, I'm going to let my wife do what she do....and that's it.'"

But unfortunately for Kordell that isn't all it...

Last season on RHOA, Kordell was absent from the reunion as Porsha stood up for her husband. But it was obvious to the other Housewives and viewers that trouble was brewing between the Southern Bell and her NFL husband. Did Kordell already have his mind made up about his marriage to Porsha? Porsha was certainly unaware of this then, fighting for her man with all of her breath as Cynthia Bailey's husband just sad, 'Where's you're man? He's supposed to be behind you,' stopping the entire stage, including Andy Cohen in their tracks. 

Then In the RHOA premiere Porsha fills viewers in more on her tumultuous split from Kordell. The NFL quarterback had broken up with Porsha via Twitter and she tells her divorce lawyer she was in shock by his swift split.

Porsha Stewart tells her divorce lawyer that she wants to make a list of steps that Kordell would have to take to mend the relationship. Porsha obviously still has hope for the marriage but by the end of the episode Porsha was losing hope as he swatted away her list of requests at their deposition.

"Seeing Kordell at the deposition today was like an out-of-body experience," Porsha said during a RHOA confessional. "For me to be on one side of the table, and to have my husband on the other side, and we're trying to work out how to separate, was just heartbreaking."

"I was like, 'I'm going to find out everything I need to know, and I'm going to know exactly why he filed on me,'" Porsha told her family. "But after that entire deposition, he had no factual reason - no exact reason - to divorce me," leaving Porsha with no resolution her her failed marriage that she once treasured.

Porsha once defended Kordell when asked if Kordell was gay saying "He's more man to me than I have ever met. So for me gay is just out of the window." But since her divorce Porsha is saying something quite different about Kordell and his sexuality on The Real Housewives of Atlanta.

But months after her tearful divorce from Kordell Stewart, where Porsha was informed of their split from Kordell via Twtter and not from his own mouth, Porsha breaks her silence on Kordell's sexuality and hints that her ex is possibly gay. 

Porsha says that "Kordell didn't necessarily want me physically and that made me wonder, what does he want?" We are wondering too! Porsha Stewart is pretty cute so what does Kordell want? Is the NFL football player changing teams or did he really hate the whole new partying Porsha? Hard to say.

Whose side are you on?