Bethenny Frankel Jason Hoppy Divorce Update: Frankel told the audeinece of her talk show and millions of viewers that she 'settled' for her ex, Jason Hoppy. Hoppy is the father of her child, so this public bashing has to stop if BEthenny wants things to end amicably with her ex.

When Patti Stanger asked Bethenny Frankel if she had indeed setlled in her marriage, Frankel slowly replied "I do, yes, I do." Bethenny had previously spoke negatively about Jason. In  October, in the midst of her messy divorce, Frankel said she had not married the love of her life. Even if Bethenny is telling the truth, does she have to make Hoppy look so bad?

The pair's divorce is and actually still not finalized and the exes even still live in the same NYC apartment. Bethenny should stop talking badly about her ex if she wants things to end without any bitter hatred. Bethenny and Hoppy share a daughter together and should be unholding some mutual respect. 

But Bethenny isn't the only one making their divorce difficult.

Jason Hoppy doesn't want his daughter Bryn around Bethenny when she is with her new lover, named Michael Cerussi III.

According to reports, "Jason had previously asked a judge to issue an order prohibiting Bethenny from having any of her boyfriends around Bryn. The judge denied Jason's request before, citing the fact that there was no evidence that being around her mother's boyfriends harmed her."

"Jason is currently mulling over his legal options in light of the reports that Bethenny is dating Michael. He is concerned about the past allegations surrounding Michael. It's just a very sad situation because Jason and Bethenny continue to argue over care of Bryn, all while still living under the same roof."

"Jason would like to get the divorce and custody settled, once and for all. Bethenny is making it impossible. He just can't understand why Bethenny has no problem parading men through Brynn's life at such a young age, especially since Bethenny complained her mother did the same thing when she was a child!"

Jason has begged a judge to get her SkinnyGirl staff out of his apartment because it is disturbing his daughter Bryn. He says the staff gather in the common areas and talk about grown up things very loudly, and Hoppy doesn't want Bryn exposed to the chatty staff anymore.

A number of staff, including a marketing executive and a group of interns, work from the home office.

 "It's not a big office, but the employees use the bathrooms in the apartment and often gather in the kitchen to just gab," a source close to the couple revealed.

"It's very concerning for Jason. He believes it's disrupting Bryn's sleep schedule. He is also concerned for Bryn's safety, as Jason doesn't know the background of these people. It makes no sense to cram all of those people into that small room. Jason believes that Bethenny is trying to make him as miserable as possible in their apartment... especially considering that she can certainly afford to lease office space for the staffers."

Also a judge has actually prohibited Hoppy and Frankel from secretly recording each other! He's been secretly recording Bethenny's SkinnyGirl staff and Bryn's nanny though TMZ confirms that Bethenny is not guilty of pulling the same dirty trick. The of use tape recorders, cell phones orcomputers to record each other is now officially off limits for Bethenny Frankel and Jason Hoppy. It's going to far!

Bethenny is fighting for sole custody of daughter Bryn, but Jason will do anything to see his daughter.

According to RadarOnline a source close to the couple said, "In what world does Bethenny live in where she thinks Jason would just walk away from Bryn? It's clear to Jason that Bethenny once she had their child, she got what she wanted from the relationship and she walked away."

"Anything he can do to push her buttons, it's being done. She can't steamroll Jason," the source added. "They hardly speak to each other, but when they do, it's nasty," the insider said.